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When couples draw up their guest lists, the question often arises as to whether children should be included. For some couples it’s not even an issue; they can’t imagine them not being part of the experience. But although children are adorable, they can be unpredictable! That’s why other couples prefer to keep the guest list limited to adults, either because they don’t want to risk the sounds of a tantrum during the ceremony or because their wedding is going to continue into the early hours of the morning.
If you don’t want to have children at your wedding, simply state it on your invitations so that parents can plan for a babysitter well in advance. If you are going to have little guests, we recommend arranging a babysitter to keep an eye on them at the event. Not only will their parents be able to relax and enjoy the occasion, but the children will have more fun if they’re kept entertained.
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